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Thursday, October 23, 2014

5 Tips For Staying Hopeful About Love

If your past relationships have made you pessimistic, there are tips for staying hopeful about love. Don't let a bad experience in the past keep you from finding love in the future.  Here are some simple tips for staying hopeful about love and relationships.

1. Every Guy Is Different
You may have been cheated on by your boyfriend or husband. You may have been hurt physically or emotionally.  Remember that not all guys are the same.  Don't let all of the mean things your ex did negatively impact your relationship with a new boyfriend.  They're not the same person.
2. You're Different
If you think that you're the same as you were ten years ago, you're mistaken. You might be similar to the person you used to be, but we all change by the day.  You've grown, so your current or future relationship is bound to be better than past ones.
3. Excellent Examples
Instead of looking at all the failed couples around you, focus on the healthy ones.  If you don't know any couples that are deeply in love, then look to the media, or even to fictional couples.  Even though the characters are not real, they're based off of real people and can help you remain positive.
4. Enjoy The Moment
You shouldn't dwell on how long your relationship is going to last. You might be with your partner for three years or thirty, but does it really matter?  You should appreciate the present.  Live in the moment, and the future will stop scaring you.
5. It Takes Time
Everything good in life requires a bit of work and a lot of time. In order to stay hopeful about finding love, remember that it can take a while for relationships to form.  You might not meet your future hubby tomorrow, but you will, so be patient.

I found mine and he was worth the wait!!!